Nine Blowjob Myths Women Should Not Believe
- Myth: There's such a thing as too much spit.
Every man is different and has their own preference on how wet they like their blowjobs but I’ve never heard any man say it was too wet. Wetness is part of what makes blowjobs feel good, so if you're slobbering all over it, don't worry. Just get into it.
- Myth: All men are obsessed with blowies, so if a dude doesn't want one, he hates you.
Believe it or not, not all men love blow jobs. Just like some women love receiving oral sex while others dont, the same thing can be true for men. If your man isn’t into oral sex that doesn't automatically mean he doesn't like you or thinks your blow jobs are awful.
- Myth: Deep throating is the key to an excellent BJ.
If you can deep throat without issue, go for it. It's an awesome skill that you unfortunately can't list on your résumé. But you can also give a stellar blow job without the head of a penis provoking your gag reflex.
- Myth: You don't need to incorporate safe sex practices when engaging in oral sex.
While you can not get pregnant from oral sex, disease transmission from oral sex is not uncommon. You can still catch herpes, HPV, syphilis, and gonorrhea in both the mouth and genitals acquired from unprotected oral sex. Therefore you should always use a barrier method (.ie. condoms or dental dams) when engaging in oral sex to protect both you and your partner.
- Myth: You should always swallow
You are never obligated to do anything during sex that you don’t want to do including swallowing.If you don’t want to swallow you can spit or have him explode in your hand or anywhere else on your body. There are plenty of other places he can ejaculate and equally enjoy doing it. Do what works for you.
- Myth: It's all about his penis, not the balls.
This totally depends on the man. Some men like their balls to be included while others don’t want them touched at all. Think of testicles like breast, you don’t have to have your breast stimulated during sex but it makes it that much better if they are. If your man is into ball play then by all means suck on them, lick them, massage them, just don't squeeze them.
- Myth: You always have to perform a blow job to completion.
Blowjobs could be the appetizer or the main course, just depends on the day. The end goal with blow jobs doesn’t always have to be an orgasm. It can be used to get the party started and then lead to intercourse.
- Myth: Your mouth can always provide enough spit to make the act enjoyable.
Cotton mouth happens. Luckily, Momentum lube exists! If you experience mouth dryness consider using Momentum Water based lube it’s compatible with condoms and gives a long-lasting stimulation of a gel with a soft, smooth glide.
- Myth: If your BJ skills are up to par, it should be over in a few minutes.
If you your man doesn’t orgasm within 2 minutes of receiving head don’t beat yourself up.There are so many factors can influence how much time it takes a guy to orgasm: when he most recently came, what he's thinking about, whether he's holding out because he wants it to last longer...
